Some years ago, I remember telling someone who my wife and I were going to Norfolk for our vacation. She turned up her nose, as if the city was not a worthwhile destination. undeterred by my critic and spurred on by a good deal I got on the hotel room, Brenda and I had a ball in Norfolk. We enjoyed sunrises and sunsets at Ocean View, visited Nauticus and the Chrysler Museum, and ate at one of the best restaurants in the commonwealth, Freemason Abbey. No, it was not the Bahamas or some other luxurious place people take cruises to. But, we found a great little spot to get away and didn’t have to go far to get there.
For those who can afford to travel out-of-state and overseas, go for it. We should all experience life away from our normal circles. But, it is not unusual to find something different in a 60 mile radius of one’s home. To save up for years for a “dream vacation” and not burn a tank of gas on a weekend road trip is a bit shameful.
Within an hour or two from my town are a charming set of watermen communities on the Northern Neck. I can visit the Eastern Shore or Back Bay and Sandbridge from metropolitan Hampton Roads. On the other side of the James River is the land of peanuts and pigs. Making my home base in Charlottesville, the Shenandoah Valley and Blue Ridge are at my fingertips. Each region has its own local flavor from the great seafood of Willis Wharf to a tasty little sandwich shop in Nellysford. The Hampton Coliseum is a popular venue for major recording artist. Or, a little bluegrass performance can be heard for pocket change in a Northumberland County church yard. The same things that we are willing to spend hours en route to experience can be had by checking print and online weekend guides.
Here is a New Year’s Resolution that may help you appreciate what you have here before going off to elsewhere. Find five places in Virginia that you have never been to (or haven’t visited in a while) and go there for either a day, weekend, or longer. If you prefer mountains or seashore, big cities or small towns. Whatever floats your boat. Make at least 3 of those visits before taking that major trip and compare the experiences. Even if that dream vacation was all that you ever desired, at least you will know that there adventures and memories to be had right in your own backyard.